"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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do your nerves grow when you gain muscle

Lt dan

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title basically says it all. dont you grown nerves when your arms and legs get bigger?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nerves are only pathways that link your brain and muscles. Your muscles have memory - but the only thing that your nerves are going to do will be to learn how to carry information more quickly. So when you're doing an exercise, your brain tells your muscles "You know what this is, now go do it!"

You don't actually grow more muscle cells in the first 6-8 weeks you're lifting...
 

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Do you mean veins...? I dunno but after I started lifting, lots of my veins starting showing like crazy. Right now, I can clearly see them on my arms. Its kinda weird but others say I look strong with them popping out. Whatcha guys think?
 

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well actually i was asking if your nerves grew. ie when you get bigger wouldnt it make sense for you to gain more nerves. the reason i ask is supposedly you cant grow nerves but when you get bigger you can still feel everywhere on your body. so it would make sense if your nerves grew. another question. are the optic nerves peripheral nerves
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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