Ringleader41
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Like you try to give them input and they think you're crazy.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Do your friends think you're an idiot for reading the stuff on this site
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
Yes I told a friend of mine not to text a girl that blew him off and he thought I was nuts. He texted her 5 more times and she never responded.
Ringleader41
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Yes lol, i tell my friends that girls make it easier for guys that theyre attracted to you and they go off to defend themselves because its obviously not happening to them.Uncharted said:
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
A guy I work with has been with his chick for like 6 years. She cheated on him, apologized, and he took her back.
I've been trying to tell him to grab his b@lls and do something about it.
Response: but i love her
I think it takes a certain type of person to find this site, then a certain type to understand what's going on, and finally a certain type of person to actually change.
I've been trying to tell him to grab his b@lls and do something about it.
Response: but i love her
I think it takes a certain type of person to find this site, then a certain type to understand what's going on, and finally a certain type of person to actually change.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MrNiceGuy23
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I told my friend about spinning plates and he loved the idea. I tell my other friends how to handle situations with women and they agree with me but none of them are capable of following through.
If you have past experiences with women who act like they do in threads on this site, then it is pretty easy (in my opinion) to realize most of what people say on this site make sense.
If you have past experiences with women who act like they do in threads on this site, then it is pretty easy (in my opinion) to realize most of what people say on this site make sense.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
I asked a similar question in a post a few months ago because I was wondering the same thing. Basically, I stopped giving any form of advice that we share here because dudes thought I was a real misogynistic crazy aʂʂhole. Bottom line is you should keep a lot of this sort of info to yourself unless you are asked for help. People HATE hearing the painful truth and the concepts of 'she's not interested in you', 'spinning pates', and 'nexting' are shocking. So I shut up and let em writhe in their own AFC ways.
After all, what do I know? I'm not in an LTR, nor, puʂʂywhipped, nor married, or have 2.5 kids, or drive a mini-van to a house I can't afford to a fat wife I don't bang.
*chuckle*
After all, what do I know? I'm not in an LTR, nor, puʂʂywhipped, nor married, or have 2.5 kids, or drive a mini-van to a house I can't afford to a fat wife I don't bang.
*chuckle*
One time a friend asked a question about spinning plates and I explained...he thought it was stupid. I just laughed at his ignorance. He's the one with 3 kids, all different moms and paying child support...not really a friend, more like an acquaintance btw.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Uncharted has made a very valid point. I honestly believe that you should not be introduced to this material at all. One should find his way naturally. There are people that I would rather never introduce to any of this material.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
I don’t have friends.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"Chumps will be chumps until they realize what they are and want to change. No one can help you but yourself. I became frustrated enough that I looked for a better way. And that's what intelligent men eventually do."
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1885875&postcount=12
Also:
Law 38
Think as you like but Behave like others
"If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness."
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1885875&postcount=12
Also:
Law 38
Think as you like but Behave like others
"If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness."
PlayHer Man
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I only advise men who are open to learning. If they have their head up their ass then I don't waste my time because I know it will fall on def ears.
Some people have to learn things the hard way and some people never learn. You can't save every man.. just like you can't f*ck every girl.
Some people have to learn things the hard way and some people never learn. You can't save every man.. just like you can't f*ck every girl.
This is the most pathetic and overused beta line in the universe. Its like love gives them an excuse to engage in all sorts of ridiculous, supplicating, groveling behavior and put up with all sorts of disrespect. Anyways, to get on topic I wouldn't bother telling any friends about this. One does not simply drop something like this on a person. Maybe drip feed it to them for a bit to see if they have an open mind.Uncharted said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Eternal_water
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I have no friends either, and if I did I would not tell them that I need to read these sites.