"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do your friends think you're an idiot for reading the stuff on this site

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Uncharted

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Yes I told a friend of mine not to text a girl that blew him off and he thought I was nuts. He texted her 5 more times and she never responded.
 

Ringleader41

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Uncharted said:
Yes I told a friend of mine not to text a girl that blew him off and he thought I was nuts. He texted her 5 more times and she never responded.
Yes lol, i tell my friends that girls make it easier for guys that theyre attracted to you and they go off to defend themselves because its obviously not happening to them.
 

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A guy I work with has been with his chick for like 6 years. She cheated on him, apologized, and he took her back.

I've been trying to tell him to grab his b@lls and do something about it.

Response: but i love her

I think it takes a certain type of person to find this site, then a certain type to understand what's going on, and finally a certain type of person to actually change.
 

pdx1138

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my friends don't think it's idiotic but they are HELLA surprised when I tell them what they should do in certain situtations.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MrNiceGuy23

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I told my friend about spinning plates and he loved the idea. I tell my other friends how to handle situations with women and they agree with me but none of them are capable of following through.

If you have past experiences with women who act like they do in threads on this site, then it is pretty easy (in my opinion) to realize most of what people say on this site make sense.
 

VladPatton

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I asked a similar question in a post a few months ago because I was wondering the same thing. Basically, I stopped giving any form of advice that we share here because dudes thought I was a real misogynistic crazy aʂʂhole. Bottom line is you should keep a lot of this sort of info to yourself unless you are asked for help. People HATE hearing the painful truth and the concepts of 'she's not interested in you', 'spinning pates', and 'nexting' are shocking. So I shut up and let em writhe in their own AFC ways.

After all, what do I know? I'm not in an LTR, nor, puʂʂywhipped, nor married, or have 2.5 kids, or drive a mini-van to a house I can't afford to a fat wife I don't bang.

*chuckle*
 

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One time a friend asked a question about spinning plates and I explained...he thought it was stupid. I just laughed at his ignorance. He's the one with 3 kids, all different moms and paying child support...not really a friend, more like an acquaintance btw.
 

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Uncharted has made a very valid point. I honestly believe that you should not be introduced to this material at all. One should find his way naturally. There are people that I would rather never introduce to any of this material.
 

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I don’t have friends.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zekko

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FinalWay said:
One time a friend asked a question about spinning plates and I explained...he thought it was stupid. I just laughed at his ignorance. He's the one with 3 kids, all different moms and paying child support.
You spin plates, and he spins moms, apparently.
 

vatoloco

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"Chumps will be chumps until they realize what they are and want to change. No one can help you but yourself. I became frustrated enough that I looked for a better way. And that's what intelligent men eventually do."

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1885875&postcount=12


Also:

Law 38

Think as you like but Behave like others

"If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness."
 

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I only advise men who are open to learning. If they have their head up their ass then I don't waste my time because I know it will fall on def ears.

Some people have to learn things the hard way and some people never learn. You can't save every man.. just like you can't f*ck every girl.
 

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Uncharted said:
Response: but i love her
This is the most pathetic and overused beta line in the universe. Its like love gives them an excuse to engage in all sorts of ridiculous, supplicating, groveling behavior and put up with all sorts of disrespect. Anyways, to get on topic I wouldn't bother telling any friends about this. One does not simply drop something like this on a person. Maybe drip feed it to them for a bit to see if they have an open mind.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have no friends either, and if I did I would not tell them that I need to read these sites.
 
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