"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you think women today are so solipsistic that instead of "death do us part" it's "you lose your job do us part"?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes. The Derek Chauvin incident is a more extreme example. Most women aren't married to guys about to be tried for murder. However, when a man loses his white or blue collar job due to layoff, he will often lose his girlfriend or wife at the same time. Some girlfriends and wives will tolerate a short job search, but many will be itching to hit the road.
 

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Great point. Terrible example and is in bad taste. You did not prove anything by that article simce the ex wife may not want to continue living with a monster. The wifes of the men who killed Emmit Till also divorced them after they were aquitted of the grusome murder of a Black boy but told the truth to a magazine interview afterwards. Some women have souls and wont stand for a depraved sicko husband like that. There is symbolic equivalence between George Floyd and Emmet Till. Emmit Till started the seeds of change for the civil rights movement just like George Floyd murder has sown the seeds of a a similar movement against systemic racism. The limits have crossed again from what a civilized society can tolerate.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She is trying to protect her assets so that she isn't on the hook for legal bills and lawsuits.
 

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It hits two spots

1) The guy did something really wrong, he's a murderer, so no wonder wants to divorce him
2) Staying married with a murderer would touch exactly on the "feminine shame" spot, which would directly affect her social status, and you gentlemen already do know that status is everything for a woman
 
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