"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do you think women today are so solipsistic that instead of "death do us part" it's "you lose your job do us part"?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes. The Derek Chauvin incident is a more extreme example. Most women aren't married to guys about to be tried for murder. However, when a man loses his white or blue collar job due to layoff, he will often lose his girlfriend or wife at the same time. Some girlfriends and wives will tolerate a short job search, but many will be itching to hit the road.
 

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Great point. Terrible example and is in bad taste. You did not prove anything by that article simce the ex wife may not want to continue living with a monster. The wifes of the men who killed Emmit Till also divorced them after they were aquitted of the grusome murder of a Black boy but told the truth to a magazine interview afterwards. Some women have souls and wont stand for a depraved sicko husband like that. There is symbolic equivalence between George Floyd and Emmet Till. Emmit Till started the seeds of change for the civil rights movement just like George Floyd murder has sown the seeds of a a similar movement against systemic racism. The limits have crossed again from what a civilized society can tolerate.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She is trying to protect her assets so that she isn't on the hook for legal bills and lawsuits.
 

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It hits two spots

1) The guy did something really wrong, he's a murderer, so no wonder wants to divorce him
2) Staying married with a murderer would touch exactly on the "feminine shame" spot, which would directly affect her social status, and you gentlemen already do know that status is everything for a woman
 
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