"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think women today are so solipsistic that instead of "death do us part" it's "you lose your job do us part"?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes. The Derek Chauvin incident is a more extreme example. Most women aren't married to guys about to be tried for murder. However, when a man loses his white or blue collar job due to layoff, he will often lose his girlfriend or wife at the same time. Some girlfriends and wives will tolerate a short job search, but many will be itching to hit the road.
 

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Great point. Terrible example and is in bad taste. You did not prove anything by that article simce the ex wife may not want to continue living with a monster. The wifes of the men who killed Emmit Till also divorced them after they were aquitted of the grusome murder of a Black boy but told the truth to a magazine interview afterwards. Some women have souls and wont stand for a depraved sicko husband like that. There is symbolic equivalence between George Floyd and Emmet Till. Emmit Till started the seeds of change for the civil rights movement just like George Floyd murder has sown the seeds of a a similar movement against systemic racism. The limits have crossed again from what a civilized society can tolerate.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She is trying to protect her assets so that she isn't on the hook for legal bills and lawsuits.
 

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It hits two spots

1) The guy did something really wrong, he's a murderer, so no wonder wants to divorce him
2) Staying married with a murderer would touch exactly on the "feminine shame" spot, which would directly affect her social status, and you gentlemen already do know that status is everything for a woman
 
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