CoandaEffect
Don Juan
China promotes education drive to make boys more 'manly'
The education ministry comes under criticism for moves to "prevent the feminisation" of young boys.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The most desired Asian women among white men in Western nations are Southeast Asian women. That would be Thai, Vietnamese, Malaysian, Filipina, Cambodian, and Laotian women. I've rarely heard of white men in the West going wild for Chinese women.Chinese women love foreign men, nobody wants Small Wang
The gender imbalance has ruined the Chinese mating environment. There are a lot of pissed off Chinese guys not getting laid right now. Sexlessness in the U.S. is bad, but it is even worse in China.The most masculine thing a man can do is bang a woman. Because of gender-based abortions, China is missing a whole lot of women, and there is also the imbalance due to hypergamy.
China has concentration camps with millions of people interned already. Now this. I'm not so sure that we should be admiring the Chinese government too much.![]()
China promotes education drive to make boys more 'manly'
The education ministry comes under criticism for moves to "prevent the feminisation" of young boys.www.bbc.com