Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you think this would ever happen in your country?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There are too many Baizuo morons in the west for this to happen.
 

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Personally I think all countries should have a mandatory ROTC enrollment either in High School, or have mandatory Military duties for a set period of time after school before they reach early 20's age like some countries like Korea.

Not only will this give some guys a taste of what masculinity is, but unbrainwash the ones that grew up with females(single mothers) and provide a sense of structure and discipline they may have never had. Especially the guys that grew up without a strong father or father figure.
 

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The most masculine thing a man can do is bang a woman. Because of gender-based abortions, China is missing a whole lot of women, and there is also the imbalance due to hypergamy. It's OVER for ChangCels.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chinese women love foreign men, nobody wants Small Wang
The most desired Asian women among white men in Western nations are Southeast Asian women. That would be Thai, Vietnamese, Malaysian, Filipina, Cambodian, and Laotian women. I've rarely heard of white men in the West going wild for Chinese women.

The white men who tend to be more into Asian women are rarely the top tier men. These are mostly beta males struggling with white females. The United States is a poisonous mating environment. Women who were raised outside the United States are less poisoned but even a woman raised in a less poisonous culture will become poisoned after some amount of time in the United States, Australia, the UK, Canada, etc. The best way to get an Asian woman for a healthier long term relationship is to expat to Asia.

Being a white man does help with Asian women. I've never been sexually attracted to East Asian women. I like that East Asian women tend to stay thin. They aren't tremendously athletic (while retaining femininity) which attracts me the most.

The most masculine thing a man can do is bang a woman. Because of gender-based abortions, China is missing a whole lot of women, and there is also the imbalance due to hypergamy.
The gender imbalance has ruined the Chinese mating environment. There are a lot of pissed off Chinese guys not getting laid right now. Sexlessness in the U.S. is bad, but it is even worse in China.
 

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