"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you think this would ever happen in your country?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There are too many Baizuo morons in the west for this to happen.
 

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Personally I think all countries should have a mandatory ROTC enrollment either in High School, or have mandatory Military duties for a set period of time after school before they reach early 20's age like some countries like Korea.

Not only will this give some guys a taste of what masculinity is, but unbrainwash the ones that grew up with females(single mothers) and provide a sense of structure and discipline they may have never had. Especially the guys that grew up without a strong father or father figure.
 

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The most masculine thing a man can do is bang a woman. Because of gender-based abortions, China is missing a whole lot of women, and there is also the imbalance due to hypergamy. It's OVER for ChangCels.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chinese women love foreign men, nobody wants Small Wang
The most desired Asian women among white men in Western nations are Southeast Asian women. That would be Thai, Vietnamese, Malaysian, Filipina, Cambodian, and Laotian women. I've rarely heard of white men in the West going wild for Chinese women.

The white men who tend to be more into Asian women are rarely the top tier men. These are mostly beta males struggling with white females. The United States is a poisonous mating environment. Women who were raised outside the United States are less poisoned but even a woman raised in a less poisonous culture will become poisoned after some amount of time in the United States, Australia, the UK, Canada, etc. The best way to get an Asian woman for a healthier long term relationship is to expat to Asia.

Being a white man does help with Asian women. I've never been sexually attracted to East Asian women. I like that East Asian women tend to stay thin. They aren't tremendously athletic (while retaining femininity) which attracts me the most.

The most masculine thing a man can do is bang a woman. Because of gender-based abortions, China is missing a whole lot of women, and there is also the imbalance due to hypergamy.
The gender imbalance has ruined the Chinese mating environment. There are a lot of pissed off Chinese guys not getting laid right now. Sexlessness in the U.S. is bad, but it is even worse in China.
 

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