"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you think this is a case of a harridan judge harassing a hot attorney?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sega Genesis

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Seems silly however I used to work in the legal field (paralegal) and when appearing in Court before a Judge, the female attorneys would typically wear a stylish blazer over a sleeveless shift dress like that. Court protocol. Remove after court hearing.

BTW I have a similar dress from J.Crew and it IS called a tank dress.

Agree with @Bible_Belt she shouid not have spoken to the Judge like that. The Judge makes the rules in their own courtroom and it's best to abide by them no matter how silly they seem to you.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The judge was just signaling he could be easily swayed by what a woman might wear. ;-) He was starting to get hot....and bothered by her.
Women need to understand that most of us red blooded males will look at her and think of her great big t!ts she has jammed in that dress and wonder what they look like when they fall out. If you want use to take you serious, then stop dressing in tight fitting clothes that show your best assets.
 

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The Judge was female.

"She inspected my outfit and chuckled and said, ‘Do you really think this is appropriate?’ And I said ‘yes’,” Medina told The Post Wednesday"
 

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The judge was just signaling he could be easily swayed by what a woman might wear. ;-) He was starting to get hot....and bothered by her.
Women need to understand that most of us red blooded males will look at her and think of her great big t!ts she has jammed in that dress and wonder what they look like when they fall out. If you want use to take you serious, then stop dressing in tight fitting clothes that show your best assets.
This was a mental health court. T!ts are good for mental health.

Though it can be hard to do any sentencing when you can't complete your train of thought. Because, t!ts.
 
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