"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you think these are good aproaches?

avrilishot

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Well as soon as I can I think im going to try approaching chicks and talking to them. Like when I see a girl 18 or older in the store by herself I will say excuse me but is it alright if I ask you a question? if she says yes I will say well tommorow is my sisters birthday and I was wondering where you got your purse from? and she will answer my question and then ill walk away. I will do this to atleast 10 girls this week. But I was wondering does this sound alright or what?

avrilishot
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DMan77

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Hah, kind of like Neil Strauss says in The Game:
"It's not lying, its flirting".
 

Tomatoes

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In the store? Is that where you work. I hit on every hot girl who walking in my shop. I have been asking about good places to go out because im new to the area. (Which atm i am) Has quite a high success rate because you can meet them there and set the date on the first contact.
 

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sarging

I VE NOTICE I GO TO BE ON A high or nothing really happens
if i am tired there s no point goin out sarging i think that element is very important
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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