"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do you think these are good aproaches?

avrilishot

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Well as soon as I can I think im going to try approaching chicks and talking to them. Like when I see a girl 18 or older in the store by herself I will say excuse me but is it alright if I ask you a question? if she says yes I will say well tommorow is my sisters birthday and I was wondering where you got your purse from? and she will answer my question and then ill walk away. I will do this to atleast 10 girls this week. But I was wondering does this sound alright or what?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DMan77

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Hah, kind of like Neil Strauss says in The Game:
"It's not lying, its flirting".
 

Tomatoes

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In the store? Is that where you work. I hit on every hot girl who walking in my shop. I have been asking about good places to go out because im new to the area. (Which atm i am) Has quite a high success rate because you can meet them there and set the date on the first contact.
 

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sarging

I VE NOTICE I GO TO BE ON A high or nothing really happens
if i am tired there s no point goin out sarging i think that element is very important
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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