"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think these are good aproaches?

avrilishot

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Well as soon as I can I think im going to try approaching chicks and talking to them. Like when I see a girl 18 or older in the store by herself I will say excuse me but is it alright if I ask you a question? if she says yes I will say well tommorow is my sisters birthday and I was wondering where you got your purse from? and she will answer my question and then ill walk away. I will do this to atleast 10 girls this week. But I was wondering does this sound alright or what?

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DMan77

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Hah, kind of like Neil Strauss says in The Game:
"It's not lying, its flirting".
 

Tomatoes

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In the store? Is that where you work. I hit on every hot girl who walking in my shop. I have been asking about good places to go out because im new to the area. (Which atm i am) Has quite a high success rate because you can meet them there and set the date on the first contact.
 

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sarging

I VE NOTICE I GO TO BE ON A high or nothing really happens
if i am tired there s no point goin out sarging i think that element is very important
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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