"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think these are good aproaches?

avrilishot

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Well as soon as I can I think im going to try approaching chicks and talking to them. Like when I see a girl 18 or older in the store by herself I will say excuse me but is it alright if I ask you a question? if she says yes I will say well tommorow is my sisters birthday and I was wondering where you got your purse from? and she will answer my question and then ill walk away. I will do this to atleast 10 girls this week. But I was wondering does this sound alright or what?

avrilishot
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DMan77

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Hah, kind of like Neil Strauss says in The Game:
"It's not lying, its flirting".
 

Tomatoes

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In the store? Is that where you work. I hit on every hot girl who walking in my shop. I have been asking about good places to go out because im new to the area. (Which atm i am) Has quite a high success rate because you can meet them there and set the date on the first contact.
 

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sarging

I VE NOTICE I GO TO BE ON A high or nothing really happens
if i am tired there s no point goin out sarging i think that element is very important
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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