Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you think there are signs about a young woman that foretell her turning into a cow?

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I was reading about the former Baywatch babe Yasmine Bleeth turning into a cow, and it got me thinking:

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/6k0q90
my opinion: There are some signs, such as having a sturdy bone structure, which indicates that the genes that made such sturdiness are there because they were needed to support the loading.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes, Howie is right about the inherited DNA aspect, but I would add to look at both mom and dad. A young child learns how to eat by following the family meal structure and appetite …
Yea. Sometimes the girl is her dad...
 

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Yea. Sometimes the girl is her dad...
Yep, dna comes from both parents. A prime example of family appetites is Honey boo boo. Extreme case because she packed it on young, but it can be mentally internalized and show up later also…
 

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Look at their moms. If she looks like her mom in her 20's, she will look even more like her mother in her 40's.
This... if both her parents are large... you can be sure she will be as well.

It is genetics and how she was raised. The only way you get fat is if you consume more calories than you burn off... and these eating habits are learned at a young age and it is very hard to break out of that early conditioning.

When I met my ex she was in her early 20s (me mid 30s), she was smoking hot 5'7" 115 lbs and her mom was a disgusting cow. Now my ex is 40 and every week I see her dropping off the kids she looks more and more like my ex-mother-in-law, complete with that weird fatty camel hump thing going on in her upper back. When we were married I used to make her exercise and eat right, but since the divorce she has slipped into old bad habits and she is not aging well.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There’s so many ways it can go. I know women with bigger moms who are models. I know women with small moms who are big girls. It all depends on the individual and their motivations
 

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There’s so many ways it can go. I know women with bigger moms who are models. I know women with small moms who are big girls. It all depends on the individual and their motivations
True, add in the female emotional eaters also. We see it all the time when women are feeling down, they eat foods calorie wise that are way outside their normal daily diet. Makes them feel better to splurge…
Don’t know it to be fact, but would bet a higher than normal percentage of depressed women are overweight.
 

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This... if both her parents are large... you can be sure she will be as well.

It is genetics and how she was raised. The only way you get fat is if you consume more calories than you burn off... and these eating habits are learned at a young age and it is very hard to break out of that early conditioning.

When I met my ex she was in her early 20s (me mid 30s), she was smoking hot 5'7" 115 lbs and her mom was a disgusting cow. Now my ex is 40 and every week I see her dropping off the kids she looks more and more like my ex-mother-in-law, complete with that weird fatty camel hump thing going on in her upper back. When we were married I used to make her exercise and eat right, but since the divorce she has slipped into old bad habits and she is not aging well.
Hahaha that's a mighty good description of an ex.

Women generally don't age well as men do physically but they do age well past many men.
 

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DNA isn’t as big as a factor as an inactive lifestyle and or a very liberal diet.
Get a girl who loves the gym and you won’t have to worry.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DNA isn’t as big as a factor as an inactive lifestyle and or a very liberal diet.
Get a girl who loves the gym and you won’t have to worry.
Exactly. Better to have a slightly wrinkled milf than a garden variety McDonalds-eating partner later
 

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The more she cares about her looks in general, the more likely she'll at least try to maintain them. Especially if she loses her career and goes broke if she gets ugly (actress, model, stripper, etc.)
 

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Fat chicks, usually have fat attitudes, as well.
Just look for the signs. Bitchiness, entitled, feminism, etc.

These girls can only keep up the 'sweet girl' facade for so long.

Just wait them out.
 

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A few moving parts here. Based on my experience:

50%: LIFESTYLE CHOICES: Far and away the #1 factor. Does she workout regularly? Is she active? Have a larger dog (really good indicator as big dogs need exercise)? Does she eat healthy and aware of nutrition? Prefer hiking and biking over partying. Is she active in her spare time? Belong to a gym or yoga studio?
25%: Psychology: Women are notorious emotional eaters. They use it as a drug when they're under stress. No one is "up" and "happy" 100% of the time, but over time, you should get a feel for her attitude and general state of mind.
25%: Parent's DNA: Look at her mom, especially. Everybody is born with a certain body type. Look at sisters, brothers, etc.
 
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