"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you think the decriminalization of sex work would make women in general have a better attitude?

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A guy that is used to pay 100 euros for a sure lay with an 8, is not gonna spend that same amount for a chance to do it with a 6.

The girlfriend experience or the validation coming out of it wont surely balance for all the wasted time, wasted money and frustration in the process before hitting the jackpot.

If you cant see how this fact will balance things in the long run in terms or perception and decision, you are probably the best customer for disney movies.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don’t see consensual paid sex as gross, no.
No, I wasn't referring to that aspect. I was referring to the industrial-level volume of men that she is seeing, the type of men, and the fact that potentially there could be multiple guys doing other women inside the same establishment, the spiritual aspect of it. I've heard a British vlogger claim that he felt raped visiting an escort and the whole experience didn't feel spiritually honest. There is more than just the set-up.

Again, if I were to ever deal with an escort, I'd likely just use skype or something that doesn't involve actual physical contact with her so at least I can pass it off as something being on the other side of a computer screen rather than in real life.


AJ84 said:
And you’re right, a bad spouse can also be just as uncaring.

it’s just that it’s a 99.9% guarantee with a hooker. She’s not going to be a bit*h to him and will listen to his problems, sure, she’ll give him the girlfriend experience but she expects to be paid for that act. In that regard she doesn’t care, she will be sweet for money but it’s fake.
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But if you have a break-up or divorce then isn't everything fake at the end of the day? You can't go back into your memory of any ex, replay it like a DVD, go over the parts where she says "I love you" or some intimate moment and say, that's real today because it's in my memory and I experienced it. Isn't it the same thing that way?

I had an ex-gf, an ex-wife, and visited two escorts in the past. They are all memories to me. They are all fake to me, in terms of having any meaning right now, because they are all gone. Do you think there is difference on that level of fake and real?
 
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