Do you think the decriminalization of sex work would make women in general have a better attitude?

[AJ84]

You don't see that set-up as gross through?



Neither is a bad spouse or girlfriend.

I don’t see consensual paid sex as gross, no.

And you’re right, a bad spouse can also be just as uncaring.

it’s just that it’s a 99.9% guarantee with a hooker. She’s not going to be a bit*h to him and will listen to his problems, sure, she’ll give him the girlfriend experience but she expects to be paid for that act. In that regard she doesn’t care, she will be sweet for money but it’s fake.

I imagine that for some guys who buy their services, it’s the no stings/no drama/no bs aspect that appeals to them in addition to the sex. She’s not going to nag or be clingy. I’m assuming this so guys who pay for this chime in I may be way off here.

 

[AJ84]

The two points I highlighted...

1. In a world of supply and demand, desperation=demand, women=supply. Men won't be that desperate because they can get laid pretty easily. This will automatically raise their standards of who they choose to date and the lower SMV women will no longer get the attention they get from desperate men. In other words kill the desperation and the demand will lessen, less demand will make the supply less valuable and the world order will be restored again LOL! Legalization will also lessen the stigma associated with the longest surviving profession in the history of mankind so sleeping with a hooker won't be seen as it is today. Places that legalize it today show that too.

2. That's like 90% of the SS community and what's taught here! lol

Less demand for easy sex probably will lead to less guys in bars spending money on drinks trying to get girls, and wasting time on tinder and other hook up sites, yeah I can see that. The SMV of women in the hook up culture may go down.

But a prostitue is not a girlfriend nor will be, unless he’s ok with having a relationship with a woman who f**ks other men for a living.

Legalization may affect the hook up culture but I’m not seeing how it will impact people looking for more than hook ups. Prostitution is the most upfront and direct form of a hook up, they are not in the business of exclusive LTRs with their customers. So for guys looking for that, I’m not sure how that demand will be impacted by the legalization of prostition.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I don’t see consensual paid sex as gross, no.

And you’re right, a bad spouse can also be just as uncaring.

it’s just that it’s a 99.9% guarantee with a hooker. She’s not going to be a bit*h to him and will listen to his problems, sure, she’ll give him the girlfriend experience but she expects to be paid for that act. In that regard she doesn’t care, she will be sweet for money but it’s fake.

I imagine that for some guys who buy their services, it’s the no stings/no drama/no bs aspect that appeals to them in addition to the sex. She’s not going to nag or be clingy. I’m assuming this so guys who pay for this chime in I may be way off here.

They will like some of the guys.

 

[Who Dares Win]

A guy that is used to pay 100 euros for a sure lay with an 8, is not gonna spend that same amount for a chance to do it with a 6.

The girlfriend experience or the validation coming out of it wont surely balance for all the wasted time, wasted money and frustration in the process before hitting the jackpot.

If you cant see how this fact will balance things in the long run in terms or perception and decision, you are probably the best customer for disney movies.

 

[corrector]

I don’t see consensual paid sex as gross, no.

No, I wasn't referring to that aspect. I was referring to the industrial-level volume of men that she is seeing, the type of men, and the fact that potentially there could be multiple guys doing other women inside the same establishment, the spiritual aspect of it. I've heard a British vlogger claim that he felt raped visiting an escort and the whole experience didn't feel spiritually honest. There is more than just the set-up.

Again, if I were to ever deal with an escort, I'd likely just use skype or something that doesn't involve actual physical contact with her so at least I can pass it off as something being on the other side of a computer screen rather than in real life.

And you’re right, a bad spouse can also be just as uncaring.

it’s just that it’s a 99.9% guarantee with a hooker. She’s not going to be a bit*h to him and will listen to his problems, sure, she’ll give him the girlfriend experience but she expects to be paid for that act. In that regard she doesn’t care, she will be sweet for money but it’s fake.

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But if you have a break-up or divorce then isn't everything fake at the end of the day? You can't go back into your memory of any ex, replay it like a DVD, go over the parts where she says "I love you" or some intimate moment and say, that's real today because it's in my memory and I experienced it. Isn't it the same thing that way?

I had an ex-gf, an ex-wife, and visited two escorts in the past. They are all memories to me. They are all fake to me, in terms of having any meaning right now, because they are all gone. Do you think there is difference on that level of fake and real?