"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you think that you have to start off with uglier chicks or can you skip right to the hotties?

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Now Gambino's thread got me thinking, do you have to start with 6s and 7s or can you go straight to the 8s and 9s in this game? This isn't to knock him or anything at all, in fact I give him many props. But he doesn't seem to be banging any 8s or 9s. The one girl he thought was a 9 only tried coming up to him after she saw him with other girls, who were less hot but still there nonetheless. Now uglier girls are gonna be more willing to see you and you can leverage that as social proof and work your way up. But in your opinion, do you think that you can you skip the climb and just go straight to the top-notch hotties or no?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alvafe

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there is a saying telling, "to get XP you need to slay some dragons" or other then say "I never slept with a ugly woman, but I awake up with several".

you can also consider this woman always talk so if you sack well in bed the hotter ones will be interested, but serious you should worry more about if you want to get her or not, remember some 7,8 is not the same to everyone
 

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I go after what I'm attracted to whether she's a 6 7 8 or 9. No reason to do anything other than that imo. She could be a 6 in the face with a 9 body that'd I like to bang.
 

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I go after what I'm attracted to whether she's a 6 7 8 or 9. No reason to do anything other than that imo. She could be a 6 in the face with a 9 body that'd I like to bang.
I agree with this. And I would say for a guy with the right levels of confidence, he should initially go straight after what he is attracted to. For a guy lacking confidence, however, starting out lower than what he is attracted to is a good confidence builder to get him to where he wants to be.
 

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The more skills I have the hotter and better women I get. I used to only get HB6-7's. Then I started getting a few HB8's and a HB9 here and there but they usually had multiple red flags. Most weren't good for long term. Now days I have no problem getting HB8's with good jobs and a good head on their shoulder, but there aren't very many out there. So for me, yep I had to go play in the streets before I got enough skills to get what I wanted. The good thing was, I learned something from every single one of them not matter how dysfunctional they were.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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