"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think that you have to start off with uglier chicks or can you skip right to the hotties?

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Now Gambino's thread got me thinking, do you have to start with 6s and 7s or can you go straight to the 8s and 9s in this game? This isn't to knock him or anything at all, in fact I give him many props. But he doesn't seem to be banging any 8s or 9s. The one girl he thought was a 9 only tried coming up to him after she saw him with other girls, who were less hot but still there nonetheless. Now uglier girls are gonna be more willing to see you and you can leverage that as social proof and work your way up. But in your opinion, do you think that you can you skip the climb and just go straight to the top-notch hotties or no?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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there is a saying telling, "to get XP you need to slay some dragons" or other then say "I never slept with a ugly woman, but I awake up with several".

you can also consider this woman always talk so if you sack well in bed the hotter ones will be interested, but serious you should worry more about if you want to get her or not, remember some 7,8 is not the same to everyone
 

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I go after what I'm attracted to whether she's a 6 7 8 or 9. No reason to do anything other than that imo. She could be a 6 in the face with a 9 body that'd I like to bang.
 

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I go after what I'm attracted to whether she's a 6 7 8 or 9. No reason to do anything other than that imo. She could be a 6 in the face with a 9 body that'd I like to bang.
I agree with this. And I would say for a guy with the right levels of confidence, he should initially go straight after what he is attracted to. For a guy lacking confidence, however, starting out lower than what he is attracted to is a good confidence builder to get him to where he wants to be.
 

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The more skills I have the hotter and better women I get. I used to only get HB6-7's. Then I started getting a few HB8's and a HB9 here and there but they usually had multiple red flags. Most weren't good for long term. Now days I have no problem getting HB8's with good jobs and a good head on their shoulder, but there aren't very many out there. So for me, yep I had to go play in the streets before I got enough skills to get what I wanted. The good thing was, I learned something from every single one of them not matter how dysfunctional they were.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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