"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do you think that military enlistment is way down because incelibate men - and soldiers with cheating wives - just aren't motivated?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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1. Increasing obesity in males. In a more vicious sexual marketplace, many overweight/obese men are incels. However, the epidemic of sexlessness has increased to the point that even men with BMIs in the normal weight category aren't getting laid as much as they should.
2. Interference from the legislative and judicial branches of government.
3. More pandering. This is related to #2, but the military is no longer a haven for masculine guys. This is making our military weaker and the environment in the military worse.
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On top of that, they don't get paid very well for the risk of loss of life.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Wage war to russians so they can embrace political correctness, taxation on workers to feed parasytes, black live matters and feminism?
Nobody wants to be a watchdog for a cvnt.
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Given that much trouble it was no longer worth my time.
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Stop watching incel BS. You will find your life much better. As for your question, no. I just think this generation is very lazy and rather take the easy road in life than the road less travelled. Why do anything when you can sit at home and play video games, go on instagram, facebook or youtube instead of actually working? That's what a lot of young dudes are doing it seems.
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I always felt like if you were an incel, you should max out everything(physique, fashion, money, wear lifts for height) and then learn game and play the numbers game hard af. I think that would get 95% of dudes results.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
we know we are just number for politicians, wars start and end by political wish, and most of time the ones wanting and starting said wars will not even get close to the front, plus army is only worth if you are officer and up, any close to a foot soldier means you will be used on as cannon foder in some war you don't even care about.
and that questions is in general, I know then for some strange reason NA people feel pride for people in the army, but that is not a shared things for the rest of the world, unfortunate diferent of what is sold, the army, navy or air force, is not there to protect your country, but to obey the politicians in said country, and everytime you have to protect will be they interests, so in all this ask this yourself
you want to protect politicians who started all problems your country have?
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The Army, or any military branch, gives a person self respect, dignity, responsibility and turns them into men (even some ladies turn into men too). If a person has no idea what to do in their life, the military is always a good option. Basic training will knock the s hit out of you, but if you make it, your a better person in the end.
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I will agree with this. I have as friends a set of brothers that were raised by a single mom - and with lots of their mothers' boyfriends shacking up - and they all joined the military and got the structure they had always needed.
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The link should start the video at the place where the discussion is about my question.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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The link should start the video at the place where the discussion is about my question.
like I said no prospect, take note too, most country after you join is kinda for life, unless you discharge, it not like US who have a active and reserve, with the reserve still having to train every other year or so, other country you are FORCED to join when you have 18 to serve for a year, a waste of time, because around that time no one will hire you, and since most will also worry about college you will still be forced to join the army, so yeah I was in the army, and I will only be called during a war, but chances are if a war happens, I will just disapear and no way in hell I will fight, plus given my will if I was armed and close to a politician I will shot him myself
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Agreed.
That said, the military still can be a great place for poor and troubled kids to get ahead in life, and get some semblance of normality. Plus, there are obvious benefits such as the pay and education for the not so poor and troubled.
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What kind of education can you achieve there beside technical one needed for war?
Is there a limit in terms of money they can give you for such purpose?
Its still a good option for poor guys from troubled families, agree on that.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.