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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Do you think that ASMR is a form of p0rn?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Murk
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I was into ASMR before it was a thing and naturally saw the whole movement blossom. I was about 17 years old, depressed, skipping school while mum was at work. I would lay on the sofa and listen to people getting massages, softly talking on youtube. Way before the monetisation of youtube came into play. Literally at the birth of youtube when it was homemade low quality stuff people did simply to put content online. Then ASMR took off and I liked watching/listening to head massages and shaves.
I have not needed it in years, I self regulate my stress and relaxation. It served a good purpose for me 10-15 years ago though.
Nothing sexual about it for me, I have ADHD and used to find it difficult to relax and let go of present stress and emotions. These days ASMR has been bastardised by women trying to make money.
I have not needed it in years, I self regulate my stress and relaxation. It served a good purpose for me 10-15 years ago though.
Nothing sexual about it for me, I have ADHD and used to find it difficult to relax and let go of present stress and emotions. These days ASMR has been bastardised by women trying to make money.
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