"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you think short Olympic weightlifters get rejected for being short?

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I've been watching the weightlifting competition at the Rio Olympics, where at the lowest weight classes, the competitors are all short Asian men - yes, definitely in extraordinary physical condition that most should consider "he-man", but still short & compact, as in no more than 160 cm tall and under 60 kg (the weight class is 56 kg, but they typically drop 4 kg in dehydration when competing). As weightlifting is my old sport (i.e., as an American-style powerlifter, not Olympic style), this is my favorite summer sport to watch (along with women's rhythmic gymnastics ;)), and being at 165 cm and also strongly V-shouldered (although without the ultra-super leanness :p), I wonder if these men also get rejected a lot by hypergamous heightist women, even though they have the cachet of being at the highest level of sport competition, albeit one that is a bit obscure. :mad:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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At 5'8, I've never really had my height be an issue with banging chicks. And this goes for women that are slightly taller in some instances too (5'10, 5'11 or so.)

Being tall definitely helps with nailing chicks, but I don't think it's as big of a deal as people make it out to be.
 
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Slash Dolo said:
At 5'8, I've never really had my height be an issue with banging chicks. And this goes for women that are slightly taller in some instances too (5'10, 5'11 or so.)

Being tall definitely helps with nailing chicks, but I don't think it's as big of a deal as people make it out to be.
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I don't think it has made any difference for me either...although online I was 5'10"...
This typically matters more the less they know you...once they get to know you this is nearly irrelevant if they are attracted to you.
 
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Nope.

I see short guys with some of the hottest women around. Women do not care about height.

Being 6'1 has never helped me in game. In some ways it has hurt my game, because I'm tall and skinny. It would require me eating about 8,000 calories per day to increase my muscle mass which I don't have time to do.

I would do anything to be 5'8 and buff.
 
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Slash Dolo said:
At 5'8, I've never really had my height be an issue with banging chicks. And this goes for women that are slightly taller in some instances too (5'10, 5'11 or so.)

Being tall definitely helps with nailing chicks, but I don't think it's as big of a deal as people make it out to be.
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It's not. There are plenty of dominate short men and beta tall men. Short men don't have the gift of stature, so we often have to make it up through other forms of intellect and dominance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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skinnyguy said:
Nope.

I see short guys with some of the hottest women around. Women do not care about height.

Being 6'1 has never helped me in game. In some ways it has hurt my game, because I'm tall and skinny. It would require me eating about 8,000 calories per day to increase my muscle mass which I don't have time to do.

I would do anything to be 5'8 and buff.
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you dont need to eat that much, you can gain muscle just fine eating normally as long as you work out consistently.
 
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I imagine the Olympic weight lifters are too busy striving and focused to be the best they can possibly be in their field to care whether a girl will reject him for being too short.
 
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