You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
But that's the problem. If he thinks "dirtbag" after reading that, then a lot of women are going to think the same. Therefore he stands to blow his chance with lots of women all because of wording.( . )( . ) said:So he's a " dirtbag " for DARING to have HIS own standards and a lack of descriptive words to give it a P.C sugar coating for you.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Search the forum for a post by Rollo T. talking about a personal ad.Call_Me_Daddy said:Where?
Like all low status males you worry too much about what a b!tch thinks of you. Also men and women think differently.The Truth said:But that's the problem. If he thinks "dirtbag" after reading that, then a lot of women are going to think the same. Therefore he stands to blow his chance with lots of women all because of wording.
That "P.C sugar coating" has its merits.
You mean the one where he read a chick's ad and redid it based on his preferences?Francisco d'Anconia said:Search the forum for a post by Rollo T. talking about a personal ad.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You guys don't get it. Most women have a concern with their weight in some way or another, no matter their size. Although he'll offend the fatties, he's going to look like an @ss to the other women. They're going to wonder what he'd say about them if they gained an extra 5 pounds.Ol'BlueEyes said:I don't see why not. I've seen the typical girl-on-MySpace pages, and offending a few fat girls is the least of your concerns.
Exactly.Although he'll offend the fatties, he's going to look like an @ss to the other women