"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you think pumping iron could really help all incels?

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False.

In my humble opinion I attract all kinds of women, reagrdless of their dedication to fitness/gym.

Conversely: I am attracted to all kinds of women, regardless of their dedication to fitness/gym.

I love curvy women who are a few pounds overweight. I'll often prefer that type over a superfit looking chick.
But being a chubby chaser doesn't require a man to be muscular. :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Certain countries in Asia, its compulsory to do military service, both for girls and boys.

In Singapore its compulsory for all males aged 18, citizens and permanent residents, failure to report for duty is a fine and/or jail term.
Well, at least this isn't the punishment! :eek::eek::eek:

 

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If you dont train then i dont respect you as a man PERIOD.
 

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Absolutely agree. I have much respect for the pook-meister but I personally think his thread about transforming his physique via weighlifting was largely fictitious. Pook never shared photos either.
Hmm, I was expecting somebody to give me sh!t about that one...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If I was in power I would introduce 1 year military service to all boys

There won't be many incels left after that bill

Discipline, masculinity, team work, role models, life skills

You flush these down the toilet and wonder why the world is a mess
you know in some parts of the world that is common, don't solve sh!t, at worse it make you waste a year, since no one would hire you because of it

but going to gym works on your mind, you are doing soemthing and see results (you should at least), then you get more willing to do it, with boost your confidence, and make you leave you damn house for at least a hour and if you are willing you can make a new social circle.

when I found this forum, the first thing I did a little before was rejoin a gym and workout, that with the forum make me push a little, with make me join a group of people I don't even know to go and skydive, doing so make me work on me getting a social circle to spend some time with.

thing is simple there is no one rule fix all, you need to work on several fronts to fix your issues, doing a little will add in the end, but the very first step would be to learn to push yourself
 

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Its not about pain or muscles in my opinion, it all starts with a man who for the first time despite his environment and upbringing starts to feel like a man and not like an undefined creature.

Once you feel like a man for the first time, a virtuous cycle begins and many more benefits and actions happen.

It may takes a huge fire to burn a forest but that huge fire needed a small spark to begin.
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If it worked then I'd be going to the Gym and pumping iron too. Obviously it doesn't work or everyone would be doing it.
Bull****. I am the definition of puberty done right. If could do it, so can everyone else. I can go days without eating food, and went days without water once willingly.
 

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I'd love to see some statistics as to whether it does any good

My guess would be that it does

Singapore has a very low crime rate it seems

But that's probably numerous factors
I don't think it does, from an Asian perspective, most view Singaporean men as 'soft' due to them living and growing up in a city state.

However, from my own observation, compared to those raised in European cities, Singaporean men has an added advantage, they're less inclined to feel privileged and hard work ethics is drilled into their psyche.

As for safety, its likely cultural, Tokyo, Singapore, Stockholm and perhaps Sydney could be considered safe cities to raise families.
 

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Well, at least this isn't the punishment! :eek::eek::eek:

Yeah I’ve watch a canning and a hanging. It cost me five Singapore dollars. All punishments are public.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lol aren't you a personal trainer? Get in my line of work; you'll learn to respect many men that don't work out.

No im not a personal trainer. What line of work are you in? Being a male porn fluffer?
 
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@Julian watch a man, that's great at his craft, build a piece of infrastructure - that most people take for granted - and spend 12 hours doing it.

I bet you'll learn to forgive his not working out. Get out of the office some time and look around.
 

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@Julian watch a man, that's great at his craft, build a piece of infrastructure - that most people take for granted - and spend 12 hours doing it.

I bet you'll learn to forgive his not working out. Get out of the office some time and look around.
Yeah every society needs its lower tier level of people to perform the slave tasks. Ill build my strength in a a high level luxury air conditioned gym filled with hot cardio bunnys. U can keep slaving in the streets, wagecel.
 
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Yeah every society needs its lower tier level of people to perform the slave tasks. Ill build my strength in a a high level luxury air conditioned gym filled with hot cardio bunnys. U can keep slaving in the streets, wagecel.
Wagecels, lol. You must be posting your illiterate ramblings from a high-rise in some big city. No work for you, huh? Especially with your hands, huh?

I just reminded myself of Juvenile's song.

 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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