Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you think men that join "masturbation clubs" should instead devote their energy to macking chicks?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it made me uneasy.

https://www.gq.com/story/why-straight-men-are-joining-masturbation-clubs

In Seattle, for instance, there’s the Rain City Jacks, a jackoff club for men who wish to, per the website, “jack off openly and safely in a uniquely sex-positive, non-discriminating and mutually respectful community.” (They also have Mardi Gras-themed events, if you’re into that.) Every Sunday and Tuesday, the Rain City Jacks meet at an erotic art gallery in Seattle.
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my opinion: This must be something that incels do to commiserate. It would be far better to spend that time getting shot down trying to mack; at least then there's a chance of ejaculating in the presence of a woman.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who Dares Win

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I dont see the point to masturbate near other people, if its gay or bisex guys looking for a place to touch other then its just a gay/bi club.

It doesnt make sense to just jack off around other people, that would be like bringing your own laptop and play solo games in a place with other solo gamers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I dont see the point to masturbate near other people, if its gay or bisex guys looking for a place to touch other then its just a gay/bi club.

It doesnt make sense to just jack off around other people, that would be like bringing your own laptop and play solo games in a place with other solo gamers.
BYO joystick.
 
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