"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think men that join "masturbation clubs" should instead devote their energy to macking chicks?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it made me uneasy.

https://www.gq.com/story/why-straight-men-are-joining-masturbation-clubs

In Seattle, for instance, there’s the Rain City Jacks, a jackoff club for men who wish to, per the website, “jack off openly and safely in a uniquely sex-positive, non-discriminating and mutually respectful community.” (They also have Mardi Gras-themed events, if you’re into that.) Every Sunday and Tuesday, the Rain City Jacks meet at an erotic art gallery in Seattle.
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my opinion: This must be something that incels do to commiserate. It would be far better to spend that time getting shot down trying to mack; at least then there's a chance of ejaculating in the presence of a woman.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Dares Win

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I dont see the point to masturbate near other people, if its gay or bisex guys looking for a place to touch other then its just a gay/bi club.

It doesnt make sense to just jack off around other people, that would be like bringing your own laptop and play solo games in a place with other solo gamers.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I dont see the point to masturbate near other people, if its gay or bisex guys looking for a place to touch other then its just a gay/bi club.

It doesnt make sense to just jack off around other people, that would be like bringing your own laptop and play solo games in a place with other solo gamers.
BYO joystick.
 
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