"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you think men that join "masturbation clubs" should instead devote their energy to macking chicks?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it made me uneasy.

https://www.gq.com/story/why-straight-men-are-joining-masturbation-clubs

In Seattle, for instance, there’s the Rain City Jacks, a jackoff club for men who wish to, per the website, “jack off openly and safely in a uniquely sex-positive, non-discriminating and mutually respectful community.” (They also have Mardi Gras-themed events, if you’re into that.) Every Sunday and Tuesday, the Rain City Jacks meet at an erotic art gallery in Seattle.
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my opinion: This must be something that incels do to commiserate. It would be far better to spend that time getting shot down trying to mack; at least then there's a chance of ejaculating in the presence of a woman.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who Dares Win

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I dont see the point to masturbate near other people, if its gay or bisex guys looking for a place to touch other then its just a gay/bi club.

It doesnt make sense to just jack off around other people, that would be like bringing your own laptop and play solo games in a place with other solo gamers.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Atom Smasher

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I dont see the point to masturbate near other people, if its gay or bisex guys looking for a place to touch other then its just a gay/bi club.

It doesnt make sense to just jack off around other people, that would be like bringing your own laptop and play solo games in a place with other solo gamers.
BYO joystick.
 
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