Do you think men fetishize fat chicks because they know it's the only way they can get poontang?

[MatureDJ]

U was looking at this, and it got me interested:

 

[sazc]

it always makes me laugh when I see this "all" mentality.

Yes, some men do that. Some men also really like bigger women.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

it always makes me laugh when I see this "all" mentality.

Yes, some men do that. Some men also really like bigger women.

Some of the guys here said on a skinny or slim chyck that they cant even get hard. On a thick or heavy chyck thry get skin splitting boners. Mines work best on fit chicks but to each is own. Our brains are wired how they are wired.

 

[RickTheToad]

They're mentally disturbed individuals.

 

[sazc]

Some of the guys here said on a skinny or slim chyck that they cant even get hard. On a thick or heavy chyck thry get skin splitting boners. Mines work best on fit chicks but to each is own. Our brains are wired how they are wired.

our brains are wired because of our past experiences, especially our childhood

 

[lamath]

I could get being into some chubby women. but being into morbidly fat women like those i dont get.

i would love to see some statistic to know how many men find those attractive, imo it would be very very low.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

our brains are wired because of our past experiences, especially our childhood

You are not required to like every food that someone else does.

 

[lamath]

You are not required to like every food that someone else does.

Yeah some ppl like to eat a lb of butter with a spoon lolllll

Good analogy you made there

 

[zekko]

I was wondering the other day what was "behind" this attraction to overweight women (no pun intended). You would think being fat would be an unhealthy cue, and thus a turnoff. Fat girls do have big boobs and big butts, maybe that has something to do with it. Fetishes are curious things anyway, although I'm not sure if this would be classified as a fetish or not, exactly.

Some guys like being degraded, maybe they feel degraded being with an obese woman lol.

 

[lamath]

I was wondering the other day what was "behind" this attraction to overweight women (no pun intended). You would think being fat would be an unhealthy cue, and thus a turnoff. Fat girls do have big boobs and big butts, maybe that has something to do with it. Fetishes are curious things anyway, although I'm not sure if this would be classified as a fetish or not, exactly.

Some guys like being degraded, maybe they feel degraded being with an obese woman lol.

Social conditioning and upbringing is a big part of it imo, when i was in college i remember that some of the fat girls no one wanted where hooking up with some foreign student, most from somewhere in Africa. But again those women where not morbidly fat like posted video

 

[zekko]

Social conditioning and upbringing is a big part of it imo, when i was in college i remember that some of the fat girls no one wanted where hooking up with some foreign student, most from somewhere in Africa. But again those women where not morbidly fat like posted video

Some of that sounds like "settling" for a fat girl, which is a little different than saying "I want and prefer a fat girl".
A woman doesn't have to be a mesomorph though. I've known some thicker girls that I've thought were pretty sexy.
There's definitely a point of diminishing returns though lol.

 

[lamath]

Chubby woman:
- possibly easier to pick up
- possibly want to have more sex than slim woman (fat is connected with estrogen levels)
- possibly more emotional in 'healthy' way
- possibly quite femine and caring
- possibly nicer/better character than that of slim woman (not enough beta fountains of attention in her life)
- her ego is possibly more fragile than ego of slim women
- possibly relatively stable wife material (if you like chubby women)

Personally I prefer normal or slim body shape over chubby but it's matter of preference.

There is chubby and morbidly obese, with a good life insurance that could be a winning proposition lolll

You have some good point but from what ive seen Chubby and fat will have some serious insecurities making them less emotionally stable and often less open sexually.

 

[Cckybold]

There was a time my cubby ex gf told me I have a small penis but I told her nope because her vigina too fat for me..

 

[Alvafe]

Chubby woman:
- possibly easier to pick up
- possibly want to have more sex than slim woman (fat is connected with estrogen levels)
- possibly more emotional in 'healthy' way
- possibly quite femine and caring
- possibly nicer/better character than that of slim woman (not enough beta fountains of attention in her life)
- her ego is possibly more fragile than ego of slim women
- possibly relatively stable wife material (if you like chubby women)

Personally I prefer normal or slim body shape over chubby but it's matter of preference.

had a time when you wanted the "normal" looking woman because they was not annoying, petty, and low maintenance, nowadays? even the fat ones are annoying, petty and high maintenance, so there is no poin to entretain such thoughts,

and woman ego there is not other kind if not fragile, if she is slim and you call her fat she will cave, with a fat you call her fat she will cave

 

[zekko]

About half of the society is overweight, in my age group most of the guys are thus the slim-shaming I get from time to time.

I was too scrawny when I was growing up, and this was before the obesity epidemic. For a guy, being underweight is just as bad as being overweight - maybe not from a health standpoint, but for being attractive and accepted. Look at all the comments on this forum telling guys how they need to bulk up. It's either bulk up or lower your body fat, if you're not at the perfect weight and muscle point, you get criticized.

You can't be too big or too small, it's like the three bears, you have to be juuuusst right.

 

[Alvafe]

I dated chubby woman (not fat, chubby) for about a month once, she was nice person, intelligent, rather stable emotionally and with kind heart. She liked sex. Possibly best character of all women I dated past my age of 27.

I'd say she was better person than me. She wasn't high maintenance and older guys (40+) liked her. Once when she went to the bathroom in the coffe shop, two 40+ guys said to me that I've really nice lass.

I ended it with her as I'm 75% after looks and only 25% after character type of the guy, but if I'd be +10 years older than her at that time I'd have maintained the relationship (probably).

I think most of the guys around age 30-35 already know that:
a)Slim women are quite bitchy and high maintenance
b)Curvy women like men bit more (high maintenance or not) due to (in overall) higher estrogen levels

you know the problem with a lot of older guys? anything young they like, and serious if 2 randoms come to me saying anything about me or the girl i'm with I would look like I would kill then on spot

I know of some older guys who have misstres, the girls was never hot or even pretty, what they had in common was always a lot younger, around 25, and they gave a lot of money to then, one even net a condo just for staying with the old guy for a year, course you could say he let her live there, not i'm saying he really passed the condo to her name

but then again remember all rules there is some exceptions

 

[Epicwinguy]

I like both but always been more into fat girls. And I do suck with women but fat girls are more mean and stuck up. Thin girls are at least polite.

Now this doesn't mean I am less shallow or something. I still hate the idea of settling for an older woman. A lot of you are repulsed by love handles. I am repulsed in the same way by wrinkles.

 

[lamath]

you know the problem with a lot of older guys? anything young they like, and serious if 2 randoms come to me saying anything about me or the girl i'm with I would look like I would kill then on spot

I know of some older guys who have misstres, the girls was never hot or even pretty, what they had in common was always a lot younger, around 25, and they gave a lot of money to then, one even net a condo just for staying with the old guy for a year, course you could say he let her live there, not i'm saying he really passed the condo to her name

but then again remember all rules there is some exceptions

Think Clinton Lewinsky is a good example

At 38 i dont find all the younger women attractive at all.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Not my taste, zero tolerance for fat asses.

I would rather have a girl with smaller than average b00bs that larger than average ass.

I like fit chicks, some fat is ok as long it stands on an athletic body.

 

[touma.akagi]

"I want strong coffee, but I'm going to settle for decaf." Want non-obese women? Go actually talk to them and meet them. If all you chase is chubby then that's all you're going to get (unless she's going to land you a date with a thinner friend).