"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you think marriage disproportionally benefits men because 70% of divorces are initiated by women?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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Yes. She has to be a functioning woman. Can she keep her commitments? Is her house, car, purse a mess? Does she have a decent job and can live within her means? Do you like her friends, and do her friends like you? No to any of this and she is not LTR material. Yes to all of this is still not enough.... at that point (which I learned from experience) you have to do a deep dive into her family and past long term relationships.

The problem with too many men is their evaluation of partners begins and ends with 'is she hot'.
I have been swinging the ****ing hammer since 15. I learned game and been going hard for over a decade with cold approach pickup. I couldn't agree more with you.

In my entire lifetime, I can count a handful of incredible women I met yet, none of them I would marry nor place house with or have as the mother of my children.

You hit it nail on. The bare basics is just a tier. Most fellas auto upgrade on aesthetic. Its not like she did anything to upgrade or warrant that consideration. The culture doesn't warrant that quality of women. The actions for the man's sole pleasure is refused by modern women making her throaty material #nextSet not play house after best yrs.
 

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So on a domestic call where the male is assaulted he must be taken in.
Yes. The best thing to do when this happens is to quickly pack a bag and go to a hotel (don't tell her where), and then hire a divorce attorney before coming back; he'll tell you how to proceed. As for myself, I would never stay with a woman that would call the police on me.
 
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