"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think marriage disproportionally benefits men because 70% of divorces are initiated by women?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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Yes. She has to be a functioning woman. Can she keep her commitments? Is her house, car, purse a mess? Does she have a decent job and can live within her means? Do you like her friends, and do her friends like you? No to any of this and she is not LTR material. Yes to all of this is still not enough.... at that point (which I learned from experience) you have to do a deep dive into her family and past long term relationships.

The problem with too many men is their evaluation of partners begins and ends with 'is she hot'.
I have been swinging the ****ing hammer since 15. I learned game and been going hard for over a decade with cold approach pickup. I couldn't agree more with you.

In my entire lifetime, I can count a handful of incredible women I met yet, none of them I would marry nor place house with or have as the mother of my children.

You hit it nail on. The bare basics is just a tier. Most fellas auto upgrade on aesthetic. Its not like she did anything to upgrade or warrant that consideration. The culture doesn't warrant that quality of women. The actions for the man's sole pleasure is refused by modern women making her throaty material #nextSet not play house after best yrs.
 

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So on a domestic call where the male is assaulted he must be taken in.
Yes. The best thing to do when this happens is to quickly pack a bag and go to a hotel (don't tell her where), and then hire a divorce attorney before coming back; he'll tell you how to proceed. As for myself, I would never stay with a woman that would call the police on me.
 
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