"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think marriage disproportionally benefits men because 70% of divorces are initiated by women?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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Yes. She has to be a functioning woman. Can she keep her commitments? Is her house, car, purse a mess? Does she have a decent job and can live within her means? Do you like her friends, and do her friends like you? No to any of this and she is not LTR material. Yes to all of this is still not enough.... at that point (which I learned from experience) you have to do a deep dive into her family and past long term relationships.

The problem with too many men is their evaluation of partners begins and ends with 'is she hot'.
I have been swinging the ****ing hammer since 15. I learned game and been going hard for over a decade with cold approach pickup. I couldn't agree more with you.

In my entire lifetime, I can count a handful of incredible women I met yet, none of them I would marry nor place house with or have as the mother of my children.

You hit it nail on. The bare basics is just a tier. Most fellas auto upgrade on aesthetic. Its not like she did anything to upgrade or warrant that consideration. The culture doesn't warrant that quality of women. The actions for the man's sole pleasure is refused by modern women making her throaty material #nextSet not play house after best yrs.
 

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So on a domestic call where the male is assaulted he must be taken in.
Yes. The best thing to do when this happens is to quickly pack a bag and go to a hotel (don't tell her where), and then hire a divorce attorney before coming back; he'll tell you how to proceed. As for myself, I would never stay with a woman that would call the police on me.
 
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