"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you think I have chances with this foreign girl?

ErasedId

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I was recently meeting up with a girl from a language learning app who studies here because I said we could practice speaking together. So we meet up and pretty soon she asks me if I do exercise and what exactly since I look strong (she says) in my pictures.

I told her about it (my lifting hobby) and we also talked about a lot of other stuff in English and Chinese. And later she wrote me saying she had a lot of fun and hoped we could meet up again sometime.

Do you guys think she was into me? Maybe I have chances
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BackInTheGame78

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Sounds like she has some interest, but it doesn't do any good wondering about this stuff in your mind. Take action and find out.
 

oldmanofthesea

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You need to reprogram yourself from wondering if you have a chance with her, to: believing she is definitely interested in you but you aren't yet sure if she's good enough for you, so you want to ask her out in order to find that out. You're the king. Not her. Move quickly with women and save yourself the wondering. Women like a confident man, not a man who waits for a bright flashing green light invitation. You got this.
 
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