"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you think hypergamy is fueling the trend of Catholic women to vow of "consecrated virginity"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://stluciatimes.com/2018/07/07/vatican-more-women-looking-to-become-consecrated-virgins/
An increasing number [of] Catholic women are taking life-long chastity vows in order to “dedicate themselves” to God, according to the Vatican.

The Holy See has issued new guidance on consecrated virginity in response to growing interest across the world in the little-known spiritual “vocation”.

Consecrated virgins are unmarried women who pledge to remain celibate for their entire lives, eschewing romantic or sexual relationships to devote themselves exclusively to being mystical “brides of Christ”.
my opinion: Hypergamy has made women so that they only want to submit to sex for the perfect man, and since such men are hard to come by - especially ones that would submit the female mating imperative of monogamy - so they figure that they can soothe their want of a romantic relationship with a man by being spiritual.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://stluciatimes.com/2018/07/07/vatican-more-women-looking-to-become-consecrated-virgins/


my opinion: Hypergamy has made women so that they only want to submit to sex for the perfect man, and since such men are hard to come by - especially ones that would submit the female mating imperative of monogamy - so they figure that they can soothe their want of a romantic relationship with a man by being spiritual.
So everyone is lined up for the top 10%. What about love?
 

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The 'jesus is my boyfriend' nonsense, has been around for a long time. Most will use it as resistance, then give in.

It's dumb! Women should just occupy themselves till the right guy comes along.
 

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The 'jesus is my boyfriend' nonsense, has been around for a long time. Most will use it as resistance, then give in.

It's dumb! Women should just occupy themselves till the right guy comes along.
The Latino guy "Jesus" is filling in until they get a LTR .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://stluciatimes.com/2018/07/07/vatican-more-women-looking-to-become-consecrated-virgins/


my opinion: Hypergamy has made women so that they only want to submit to sex for the perfect man, and since such men are hard to come by - especially ones that would submit the female mating imperative of monogamy - so they figure that they can soothe their want of a romantic relationship with a man by being spiritual.
It's silly to make vows when you are in a phase. Supposed you grow up and think differently, then you are stuck because you made a vow to God.
 

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So women consider the average guy so low right now that they would rather pick an imaginary friend of great status instead.

They would rather drop sex, intimacy, validation and attention rather than getting them from a man outside the top 20%.

Nothing wrong with that as long as the bottom 80% could say the same when it comes of paying taxes for their welfare.
 

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://stluciatimes.com/2018/07/07/vatican-more-women-looking-to-become-consecrated-virgins/


my opinion: Hypergamy has made women so that they only want to submit to sex for the perfect man, and since such men are hard to come by - especially ones that would submit the female mating imperative of monogamy - so they figure that they can soothe their want of a romantic relationship with a man by being spiritual.
Google NUN

That should be an enlightenment of sorts
 
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