"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you think hypergamy is fueling the trend of Catholic women to vow of "consecrated virginity"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://stluciatimes.com/2018/07/07/vatican-more-women-looking-to-become-consecrated-virgins/
An increasing number [of] Catholic women are taking life-long chastity vows in order to “dedicate themselves” to God, according to the Vatican.

The Holy See has issued new guidance on consecrated virginity in response to growing interest across the world in the little-known spiritual “vocation”.

Consecrated virgins are unmarried women who pledge to remain celibate for their entire lives, eschewing romantic or sexual relationships to devote themselves exclusively to being mystical “brides of Christ”.
my opinion: Hypergamy has made women so that they only want to submit to sex for the perfect man, and since such men are hard to come by - especially ones that would submit the female mating imperative of monogamy - so they figure that they can soothe their want of a romantic relationship with a man by being spiritual.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://stluciatimes.com/2018/07/07/vatican-more-women-looking-to-become-consecrated-virgins/


my opinion: Hypergamy has made women so that they only want to submit to sex for the perfect man, and since such men are hard to come by - especially ones that would submit the female mating imperative of monogamy - so they figure that they can soothe their want of a romantic relationship with a man by being spiritual.
So everyone is lined up for the top 10%. What about love?
 

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The 'jesus is my boyfriend' nonsense, has been around for a long time. Most will use it as resistance, then give in.

It's dumb! Women should just occupy themselves till the right guy comes along.
 

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The 'jesus is my boyfriend' nonsense, has been around for a long time. Most will use it as resistance, then give in.

It's dumb! Women should just occupy themselves till the right guy comes along.
The Latino guy "Jesus" is filling in until they get a LTR .
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://stluciatimes.com/2018/07/07/vatican-more-women-looking-to-become-consecrated-virgins/


my opinion: Hypergamy has made women so that they only want to submit to sex for the perfect man, and since such men are hard to come by - especially ones that would submit the female mating imperative of monogamy - so they figure that they can soothe their want of a romantic relationship with a man by being spiritual.
It's silly to make vows when you are in a phase. Supposed you grow up and think differently, then you are stuck because you made a vow to God.
 

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So women consider the average guy so low right now that they would rather pick an imaginary friend of great status instead.

They would rather drop sex, intimacy, validation and attention rather than getting them from a man outside the top 20%.

Nothing wrong with that as long as the bottom 80% could say the same when it comes of paying taxes for their welfare.
 

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://stluciatimes.com/2018/07/07/vatican-more-women-looking-to-become-consecrated-virgins/


my opinion: Hypergamy has made women so that they only want to submit to sex for the perfect man, and since such men are hard to come by - especially ones that would submit the female mating imperative of monogamy - so they figure that they can soothe their want of a romantic relationship with a man by being spiritual.
Google NUN

That should be an enlightenment of sorts
 
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