"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think harridans are becoming single mommies because they figure it's their last shot?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/09/...ths-are-falling-except-among-older-women.html
There was only one group of unmarried women for whom the birthrate increased in recent years: those 35 and older. In many cases, they are having babies outside of marriage by choice, with more resources and education than the typical single mother.
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My opinion: These harridans have always had in mind the requisites that their husband must have, and of course they could not attract such a man (even for a pump & dump), and once they started encroaching on their biological clock, they figured that they needed to at least get *inseminated* by a man who, at least DNA-wise, has these requisites. Oh, and I'll bet they'll start bellyaching about how the men they rejected in the past now need to "man up" and be good stepfathers. NO THANKS, I'LL PASS! :down::down::down:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Urbanyst

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Becoming a mother is how women hang on their VALUE. Once they are not valued for SEX, you become valued by your children for support.

Since mothers are also viewed more favorably by society than single women who remain childless. Its easier for such women to make friends and to socialize with other women and not get stigmatized.

Remember.. its MEN who are the deadbeats for leaving these poor, poor, women to raise his child alone or for not measuring up in some other way lol.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

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