"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you think harridans are becoming single mommies because they figure it's their last shot?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/09/...ths-are-falling-except-among-older-women.html
There was only one group of unmarried women for whom the birthrate increased in recent years: those 35 and older. In many cases, they are having babies outside of marriage by choice, with more resources and education than the typical single mother.
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My opinion: These harridans have always had in mind the requisites that their husband must have, and of course they could not attract such a man (even for a pump & dump), and once they started encroaching on their biological clock, they figured that they needed to at least get *inseminated* by a man who, at least DNA-wise, has these requisites. Oh, and I'll bet they'll start bellyaching about how the men they rejected in the past now need to "man up" and be good stepfathers. NO THANKS, I'LL PASS! :down::down::down:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Becoming a mother is how women hang on their VALUE. Once they are not valued for SEX, you become valued by your children for support.

Since mothers are also viewed more favorably by society than single women who remain childless. Its easier for such women to make friends and to socialize with other women and not get stigmatized.

Remember.. its MEN who are the deadbeats for leaving these poor, poor, women to raise his child alone or for not measuring up in some other way lol.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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