"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think harridans are becoming single mommies because they figure it's their last shot?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/09/...ths-are-falling-except-among-older-women.html
There was only one group of unmarried women for whom the birthrate increased in recent years: those 35 and older. In many cases, they are having babies outside of marriage by choice, with more resources and education than the typical single mother.
My opinion: These harridans have always had in mind the requisites that their husband must have, and of course they could not attract such a man (even for a pump & dump), and once they started encroaching on their biological clock, they figured that they needed to at least get *inseminated* by a man who, at least DNA-wise, has these requisites. Oh, and I'll bet they'll start bellyaching about how the men they rejected in the past now need to "man up" and be good stepfathers. NO THANKS, I'LL PASS! :down::down::down:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Becoming a mother is how women hang on their VALUE. Once they are not valued for SEX, you become valued by your children for support.

Since mothers are also viewed more favorably by society than single women who remain childless. Its easier for such women to make friends and to socialize with other women and not get stigmatized.

Remember.. its MEN who are the deadbeats for leaving these poor, poor, women to raise his child alone or for not measuring up in some other way lol.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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