"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you think harridans are becoming single mommies because they figure it's their last shot?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/09/...ths-are-falling-except-among-older-women.html
There was only one group of unmarried women for whom the birthrate increased in recent years: those 35 and older. In many cases, they are having babies outside of marriage by choice, with more resources and education than the typical single mother.
My opinion: These harridans have always had in mind the requisites that their husband must have, and of course they could not attract such a man (even for a pump & dump), and once they started encroaching on their biological clock, they figured that they needed to at least get *inseminated* by a man who, at least DNA-wise, has these requisites. Oh, and I'll bet they'll start bellyaching about how the men they rejected in the past now need to "man up" and be good stepfathers. NO THANKS, I'LL PASS! :down::down::down:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Becoming a mother is how women hang on their VALUE. Once they are not valued for SEX, you become valued by your children for support.

Since mothers are also viewed more favorably by society than single women who remain childless. Its easier for such women to make friends and to socialize with other women and not get stigmatized.

Remember.. its MEN who are the deadbeats for leaving these poor, poor, women to raise his child alone or for not measuring up in some other way lol.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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