"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Solomon

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This is a terrible example. Jensen is one of the richest men in the world, worth over $150 billion; the guy is in the top 0.000001% when it comes to earnings and status.

Use a more relastic example next time, but to answer your question is water wet?
 

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This is a terrible example. Jensen is one of the richest men in the world, worth over $150 billion; the guy is in the top 0.000001% when it comes to earnings and status.

Use a more relastic example next time, but to answer your question is water wet?
Without being an expert in honeypots or other clandestine operations / methods, but I'm reasonably certain that sexual attraction doesn't enter the equation. When there's the goal is to gather information, blackmail material, or extortion, then the sex is almost secondary to the goal.
 

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In the western world? HELL YEAH.

Its the only way to be noticed, BUT the upside is that once you do get noticed you will run through TONS of women from all races.

In their own culture? They won't GAF. The western world has the worst dating environment possible for men. In any other culture the male / female role and place is much more clear, with Muslims right now running shyte and standing on number one by a mile..


Even Indian dudes can always fly to the homeland and literally buy a woman if necessary. And boy do they got FINE women...
 

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The DEA has always loved a good honey trap. If you are ever at a concert in the US, especially one where the fans have a reputation for recreational drug use, and you meet a very attractive, sexily dressed, unaccompanied woman who seems inebriated and she says she would be oh so grateful if you could tell her where to buy some drugs....it's a trap. She's a DEA agent. As soon as you point a finger in one direction, you'll get apprehended by other agents and face a 5 year mandatory minimum prison sentence.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chinese and the Russians love to run that Honey Trap spy game. The Israelis too w the Mossad . (Maybe all spy agencies who knows)

Neil Strauss did a good investigation into the Russian seduction spy techniques in his podcast on Apple. Worth a listen .
 

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If a woman ever comes on too strong or pursues hard, she wants something more from you and you should be suspicious. She's going to take your money, set you up, or seek information. Or she might have a dihk.

A hot looking tranny about fooled me and a buddy one night. The fact that we were in the gay/lesbian/bi/confused part of town made me think otherwise and the fact that "it" was very forward like a horny guy convinced me it was time to eject.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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