"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you think EthnicCels are always trying to get the top-tier of their own kind?

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I was reading about the Nvidia CEO getting honeypotted by a fellow Chinese (a ChiCom spy :eek:), and it got me interested:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is a terrible example. Jensen is one of the richest men in the world, worth over $150 billion; the guy is in the top 0.000001% when it comes to earnings and status.

Use a more relastic example next time, but to answer your question is water wet?
 

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This is a terrible example. Jensen is one of the richest men in the world, worth over $150 billion; the guy is in the top 0.000001% when it comes to earnings and status.

Use a more relastic example next time, but to answer your question is water wet?
Without being an expert in honeypots or other clandestine operations / methods, but I'm reasonably certain that sexual attraction doesn't enter the equation. When there's the goal is to gather information, blackmail material, or extortion, then the sex is almost secondary to the goal.
 

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In the western world? HELL YEAH.

Its the only way to be noticed, BUT the upside is that once you do get noticed you will run through TONS of women from all races.

In their own culture? They won't GAF. The western world has the worst dating environment possible for men. In any other culture the male / female role and place is much more clear, with Muslims right now running shyte and standing on number one by a mile..


Even Indian dudes can always fly to the homeland and literally buy a woman if necessary. And boy do they got FINE women...
 

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The DEA has always loved a good honey trap. If you are ever at a concert in the US, especially one where the fans have a reputation for recreational drug use, and you meet a very attractive, sexily dressed, unaccompanied woman who seems inebriated and she says she would be oh so grateful if you could tell her where to buy some drugs....it's a trap. She's a DEA agent. As soon as you point a finger in one direction, you'll get apprehended by other agents and face a 5 year mandatory minimum prison sentence.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chinese and the Russians love to run that Honey Trap spy game. The Israelis too w the Mossad . (Maybe all spy agencies who knows)

Neil Strauss did a good investigation into the Russian seduction spy techniques in his podcast on Apple. Worth a listen .
 

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Chinese and the Russians love to run that Honey Trap spy game. The Israelis too w the Mossad . (Maybe all spy agencies who knows)

Neil Strauss did a good investigation into the Russian seduction spy techniques in his podcast on Apple. Worth a listen .
They all do, CIA too
 
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