Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
So his political views- not his accomplishments and body of work. This is life in 2022. People care about shvt that doesn’t matter.I like Chris Rock because he's a closet conservative.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well, that explains why none of the Hollywood crowd defended him.I like Chris Rock because he's a closet conservative.
Chris Rock isn't that funny?? He is one of the most legendary comedians ever. Bigger and Blacker was a classic. I agree that he isn't nearly as funny as he was in his prime though.Will Smith is a simp. Likable actor but a simp. Chris Rock isn’t that funny. His voice is annoying. Seems like an ok guy off camera.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You're not talking about Marlon Brando, are you?All this smith/rock mess made the forget about that guy that was supposed to be at the oscar but didnt go...what was his name again?
It's not beta to stand up for your lady. The beta part about Will is that he's still with this chick.Will Smith portrayed beta behavior to it's core... Not surpring it's public know his wife cheats
No not Brando, still a former actors thought...a former comedian and dancer.You're not talking about Marlon Brando, are you?
I was thinking about watching the King Richard movie, but I don't think I could watch it now without thinking about "the slap", so I probably won't bother.
He "stood up" for her after first finding Chris Rock's joke funny and then seeing her angry reaction. A comic is going to roast people that's what they do lolIt's not beta to stand up for your lady. The beta part about Will is that he's still with this chick.
Most legendary? He, Eddie Murphy & Redd Foxx are the troika of black comedy.Chris Rock isn't that funny?? He is one of the most legendary comedians ever. Bigger and Blacker was a classic. I agree that he isn't nearly as funny as he was in his prime though.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Funny thing is Eddie is bisexual. Most of these big hollywood guys have done gay favors including Eddie. I know this from reliable sources (long story). Btw this is funny but can you imagine how cancelled he would be today if he said this. Wow......so much change in 35 years.Most legendary? He, Eddie Murphy & Redd Foxx are the troika of black comedy.
Hey boy, hey boy! Ya look mighty cute in them jeans.Most legendary? He, Eddie Murphy & Redd Foxx are the troika of black comedy.
Eddie Murphy was legendary, modern comedians just can't compete. Here is him doing an arab impersonationMost legendary? He, Eddie Murphy & Redd Foxx are the troika of black comedy.
I had forgotten how great Murphy was - he mogs Rock. Murphy is up there with Dangerfield & Rickles.Eddie Murphy was legendary, modern comedians just can't compete. Here is him doing an arab impersonation
And here he is dropping marriage Redpills
Chris Rock isn’t that funny.
He has his moments, but he's not a naturally funny guy like Dave Chapelle (also a closet conservative).
Kanye West?All this smith/rock mess made the forget about that guy that was supposed to be at the oscar but didnt go...what was his name again?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.