She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Standards only exist for women. You, too, can be a fat whale and still get a fit guy.I was looking at this pic at my bank's website, and it got me thinking:
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my opinion: The man seems to be in good shape, even Chad-tier, while the woman is rather small breasted even as a beach ball.![]()
It still does. If anything, the person with the right idea and funding can steal the market share that all the companies gave up.So much for the concept in Marketing 101... "Sex Sells".
For a while the adverts were anti-aspirational (ex, more gay people in ads than in real life, more minorities, etc, less masculine men)Advertising is no longer aspirational, marketers are now pandering to people that actually look this way. Advertising will always go where the top dollar is. Make people feel good about themselves and they will buy your products.
I work at the largest county hospital in a very large metropolitan area on the western coast of the United States. You might be amazed, but 95% of my patients are obese, not 10lbs overweight - 40-50 and more. It’s eye opening.
More and more patient rooms have CRANES hanging from the ceilings to facilitate the movement of these land whales, because even 3-4 healthy strong staff members struggle just to roll them on their sides.
There are specialized beds now that can handle these heavier patients now, I cannot tell you the number of times I’ve gone to lift a persons bed or angle it for a procedure and the motors simply die.
The adverts above are the reality of what our population looks like today.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yikes! Back in the day, California was known for fit people who exercised and ate well. Women in leg warmers doing jazzercise and men in the gyms pumping iron. Now we have more pot dispensaries than gyms. The societal bar seems very low these days, don’t want to ”offend” anyone by suggesting their outcome reflects their effort. Advertisers just have to adjust to the market and tread lightly or they‘ll end up with a Bud Lite situation.Advertising is no longer aspirational, marketers are now pandering to people that actually look this way. Advertising will always go where the top dollar is. Make people feel good about themselves and they will buy your products.
I work at the largest county hospital in a very large metropolitan area on the western coast of the United States. You might be amazed, but 95% of my patients are obese, not 10lbs overweight - 40-50 and more. It’s eye opening.
More and more patient rooms have CRANES hanging from the ceilings to facilitate the movement of these land whales, because even 3-4 healthy strong staff members struggle just to roll them on their sides.
There are specialized beds now that can handle these heavier patients now, I cannot tell you the number of times I’ve gone to lift a persons bed or angle it for a procedure and the motors simply die.
The adverts above are the reality of what our population looks like today.