MatureDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Do you think a newly divorced man playing the field is a "cad"?
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Just look up "shaming language" online, some men's site, not sure which. WHEN YOU don't act like THEY want, they try to shame you into the "party line" with words like "bitter, CAD, player, etc....
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear MDJ,
"A cad"?.....Oh no,he is a new born Don Juan...probably a Beta who has learned the hard way LOL!
"A cad"?.....Oh no,he is a new born Don Juan...probably a Beta who has learned the hard way LOL!
Tictac
Banned
A little touchy here boys.
She doesn't call him a cad. In fact given that he describes how he sees his life going forward as a serial monogamist, her advice is fairly good.
She doesn't call him a cad. In fact given that he describes how he sees his life going forward as a serial monogamist, her advice is fairly good.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Agreed, OP is trying too hard.Tictac said:
Personally I would not get into any relationship if I had kids, until they were older.