MatureDJ
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Do you think a newly divorced man playing the field is a "cad"?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Just look up "shaming language" online, some men's site, not sure which. WHEN YOU don't act like THEY want, they try to shame you into the "party line" with words like "bitter, CAD, player, etc....
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear MDJ,
"A cad"?.....Oh no,he is a new born Don Juan...probably a Beta who has learned the hard way LOL!
"A cad"?.....Oh no,he is a new born Don Juan...probably a Beta who has learned the hard way LOL!
Tictac
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A little touchy here boys.
She doesn't call him a cad. In fact given that he describes how he sees his life going forward as a serial monogamist, her advice is fairly good.
She doesn't call him a cad. In fact given that he describes how he sees his life going forward as a serial monogamist, her advice is fairly good.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Agreed, OP is trying too hard.Tictac said:
Personally I would not get into any relationship if I had kids, until they were older.