MatureDJ
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Do you think a newly divorced man playing the field is a "cad"?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Just look up "shaming language" online, some men's site, not sure which. WHEN YOU don't act like THEY want, they try to shame you into the "party line" with words like "bitter, CAD, player, etc....
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear MDJ,
"A cad"?.....Oh no,he is a new born Don Juan...probably a Beta who has learned the hard way LOL!
"A cad"?.....Oh no,he is a new born Don Juan...probably a Beta who has learned the hard way LOL!
Tictac
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A little touchy here boys.
She doesn't call him a cad. In fact given that he describes how he sees his life going forward as a serial monogamist, her advice is fairly good.
She doesn't call him a cad. In fact given that he describes how he sees his life going forward as a serial monogamist, her advice is fairly good.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Agreed, OP is trying too hard.Tictac said:
Personally I would not get into any relationship if I had kids, until they were older.