cablecow15
Master Don Juan
I usually text them to let them know who i am , because usually they wont answer me if u just call , they will text back " who is this "
what do you guys do ?
what do you guys do ?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
do you text or call first ?
- Thread starter cablecow15
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
Text first!
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
Text first
Build rapport
Then set up a date!
You can read the book on texting, it came out two years ago. Don't remember the name.
Build rapport
Then set up a date!
You can read the book on texting, it came out two years ago. Don't remember the name.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SgtSplacker
Master Don Juan
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I hate calling because I always end up leaving some awkward message "Hi this is Rusty, remember me from the bar? I smelled like weed and touched your but by mistake? Well give me a call" screw that i'll just text.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
lmfao "touched your butt by mistake"
if i do leave a message itll be chill , hey its me hit me up
if i do leave a message itll be chill , hey its me hit me up