cablecow15
Master Don Juan
I usually text them to let them know who i am , because usually they wont answer me if u just call , they will text back " who is this "
what do you guys do ?
what do you guys do ?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
do you text or call first ?
- Thread starter cablecow15
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
Text first!
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
Text first
Build rapport
Then set up a date!
You can read the book on texting, it came out two years ago. Don't remember the name.
Build rapport
Then set up a date!
You can read the book on texting, it came out two years ago. Don't remember the name.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SgtSplacker
Master Don Juan
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I hate calling because I always end up leaving some awkward message "Hi this is Rusty, remember me from the bar? I smelled like weed and touched your but by mistake? Well give me a call" screw that i'll just text.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
lmfao "touched your butt by mistake"
if i do leave a message itll be chill , hey its me hit me up
if i do leave a message itll be chill , hey its me hit me up