"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do you text or call first ?

cablecow15

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I usually text them to let them know who i am , because usually they wont answer me if u just call , they will text back " who is this "

what do you guys do ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maximummax

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Text first
Build rapport
Then set up a date!
You can read the book on texting, it came out two years ago. Don't remember the name.
 

Zerro

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I don't bother calling anymore, all the dates I've had thus far this year were set up via text, Facebook messenger, or email. It's been more successful than calling so I might as well stick with it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SgtSplacker

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I hate calling because I always end up leaving some awkward message "Hi this is Rusty, remember me from the bar? I smelled like weed and touched your but by mistake? Well give me a call" screw that i'll just text.
 

cablecow15

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lmfao "touched your butt by mistake"

if i do leave a message itll be chill , hey its me hit me up
 
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