"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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do you tell your friends about girls u fuk?

blackwolf

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just wonderin if you guys spill the beans whenever you get laid... do you tell your friends or keep quiet?

usually i dont tell anyone cause i dont like showing off.. but theres this one friend that seems to get jealous when i mention im with a girl or meeting one... just before when i said i was meeting someone that he knows.. i told him i was gonna make a move on her and hes like nahh she wont do anything with you. now im thinking maybei should just shut up about girls i hook up with.. but then he'll think i never have girls.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why do you care what your friend or anyone thinks. Were you not put on this planet not to impress and please anyone but yourself?
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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I didnt ever tell my friends about my girls unless they asked. Even then I usually held out details.

It easier to just not tell them or your going to be making jealousy in the friendship.
 

Warrior74

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Nah. If I'm out with a girl, its assumed isn't it? If I don't bring her around my friends I don't want them to know. I keep my business to myself. Actually since women talk more than men, in a social circle they may know more than other guys who you slept with, and if they know you keep your mouth closed they might try you out if you get good reviews. It pays to keep your business to yourself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rex Man

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Rarely. And then, only to my friends that are good with women. Mentioning sexual exploits, even in passing, does nothing but build up resentment and jealousy. Just as the rich man shouldn't flaunt his money in the company of the impoverished, a man with a healthy sex life shouldn't gloat in front of those less fortunate; be they friend or foe.

If you need further proof, look no further than Szyzzlin's post about his "connection" on the dance floor.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=178585

Jealousy is an amazingly powerful force, do not turn it against yourself.
 

Iceberg

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I used to be a big "stories" guy when I was younger. Now I rarely tell anyone anything unless something extremely interesting happens. You know, if she's married or has a crazy boyfriend or something.
 
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