"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do you tell your friends about girls u fuk?

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blackwolf

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just wonderin if you guys spill the beans whenever you get laid... do you tell your friends or keep quiet?

usually i dont tell anyone cause i dont like showing off.. but theres this one friend that seems to get jealous when i mention im with a girl or meeting one... just before when i said i was meeting someone that he knows.. i told him i was gonna make a move on her and hes like nahh she wont do anything with you. now im thinking maybei should just shut up about girls i hook up with.. but then he'll think i never have girls.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do you care what your friend or anyone thinks. Were you not put on this planet not to impress and please anyone but yourself?
 
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Sir Psycho Sexy

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I didnt ever tell my friends about my girls unless they asked. Even then I usually held out details.

It easier to just not tell them or your going to be making jealousy in the friendship.
 
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Nah. If I'm out with a girl, its assumed isn't it? If I don't bring her around my friends I don't want them to know. I keep my business to myself. Actually since women talk more than men, in a social circle they may know more than other guys who you slept with, and if they know you keep your mouth closed they might try you out if you get good reviews. It pays to keep your business to yourself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rex Man

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Rarely. And then, only to my friends that are good with women. Mentioning sexual exploits, even in passing, does nothing but build up resentment and jealousy. Just as the rich man shouldn't flaunt his money in the company of the impoverished, a man with a healthy sex life shouldn't gloat in front of those less fortunate; be they friend or foe.

If you need further proof, look no further than Szyzzlin's post about his "connection" on the dance floor.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=178585

Jealousy is an amazingly powerful force, do not turn it against yourself.
 
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I used to be a big "stories" guy when I was younger. Now I rarely tell anyone anything unless something extremely interesting happens. You know, if she's married or has a crazy boyfriend or something.
 
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